A Gentle Heart and Spirit

Hey everyone, I hope all of you are having a great start to the year and are delving in to the word of God.

I share with you today something a little different. When I read scripture, I either take away something from the entire passage or if a verse pulls me in, I dwell on it, break the verse down and let the spirit take me to a deeper understanding of it.

I love breaking a verse down and I have always done this on paper. But over the last couple of months, I felt led to share this in some way on the blog, but to do so I had to try my hand at making this a digital possibility. In the last couple of weeks, I have been ardently giving this a go and I must say that as I was figuring out how to do this, I wanted to give up a few times and get back to my trusted pen and paper. However, perseverance won out in the end and so I share with you all today Philippians 4:5.

“Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.”

This verse has been sitting with me for quite a while. I had touched upon this verse when I wrote on gentleness in my Fruit of the Spirit series.

The verse begins with ‘Let’ – it is a choice to reflect gentleness – a Christlike consideration of others. How often are we intentional with showing gentleness? It may come with ease towards those who are good and kind to us or those we love but are we intentional with showing gentleness to those who are not?

Why is this important – a great reminder for us is Christ’s gift of saving grace. His grace is not for a select few, but open for all to accept. By being selective in whether someone deserves to be recipients of gentleness, do we inadvertently judge? And by doing so are we not allowing those moments to be victory for the enemy rather than using them for the Lord.

Jesus says in Mathew 7, “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way, you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”

Take a moment and reflect on a time you wrongly and probably quickly judged someone? Would you like to be on the short end of the measure someone uses that excludes you or unfairly places you in a box? When we grapple with showing gentleness to another may we remember what Jesus teaches in Mathew 6:12, “Treat others as you want to be treated.” And in Mathew 22:39 “Love our neighbour as ourselves.”

This non-selective intentionality to show gentleness is reiterated when the verse says it is to be evident to ALL. ALL, not some or a few but All and that ‘All’ encompasses those who have a different opinion, who do life differently than us, who believe differently and even to those who do not look upon us with kindness.

Your – Gentleness, as a fruit of the spirit, is something that we might not inherently have but something we grow and mature in as we spent time with God. Us, sinners, can in no way reflect Christ like gentleness towards others unless we abide in Christ. He is the vine and we are the branches.

John 15:4-5 says “Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself unless it abides in the vine, so neither can you unless you abide in Me. I am the vine, you are the branches; he who abides in Me and I in him, he bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing.”

To have and to reflect the fruit, we have to abide in Christ. To abide is to remain in and live in Christ and an important aspect of that is obedience and walking in Jesus’s way.

As John 15:10 says “If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love.”

And gentleness must be evident – it is not sufficient to only think it and that thought does not further from there and eventuate into action. Or hope for others to show it and all we do is provide verbal platitudes. We are to be the place for others to experience Christ like gentleness. Faith without deeds is dead (James 2:26). Step out and make it evident and let others feel Christ through us.

The Lord is near – When we live with the awareness that the Lord is near, it gives us reassurance, comfort and strength to consistently do the Christ like thing and be the light in an unfair world that He calls us to be. Because that is what He wants us to do and that should be our driving force. To be able to put aside those fears, quick judgements and hurts that might cause us to pause in showing gentleness towards others. In Christ we can, because it is not ours to Judge, but the Lords, it is not ours to make right but the Lords. We are but His vessels, pouring out His love and grace through acts of kindness and gentleness.

Prayer: Lord, we realise that there are times when we are not gentle with our words, our thoughts or our actions. Teach us to reflect gentleness. Remind us of the many ways you extend gentleness towards us. When we struggle to respond to others with a gentle spirit, help us to set aside our sinful, selfish nature and surrender to your power at work in us. Let our gentleness be evident so that others can see the work of you grace in our lives.


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  1. I really love the way you broke down the verse, word by word. This is a great tool when reading the Bible. Too often I breeze through a passage and don’t get the full impact. So I plan to try this. Thank you so much for sharing!
    And I really love the verse that you chose to reflect on today. Gentleness is something I have thought about more lately, thanks to your Fruit of the Spirit series. This verse helps us to see how important it is, and also how we have the ability to affect those around us.
    I love the latter part of the verse too. Thinking about the fact that the Lord is near brings such comfort, no matter what we are facing.
    I loved this post!! Blessings, my friend! 🤗♥️

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    1. I am so happy you like it so much and are going to give this a try. I love breaking down verses like this and I am so excited that I managed to share it on the blog.
      Gentleness does have the ability to affect those around us and the nearness of the Lord is our fuel and our shield.
      Blessings to you dear friend 🤗🌺💙

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  2. I’m glad you persevered and finished a digital version of breaking down of Philippians 4:5. I appreciate the words you wrote and the other scriptures you shared, but the picture you made says it all! Plus, it’s pretty enough to hang on the wall.🤗
    Well done, Manu! Blessings.

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  3. Manu, I love your “diagram” and post. When we take time to break down a bible verse, it “speaks” to us. It is a wonderful idea, one I need to develop the patience to pursue.
    As Christians, we need to remember to treat everyone with gentleness, forgiveness, and love.
    Philippians 4:5 is a great verse to meditate on and “walk with” in the new year! 💗✨💐🌺

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    1. Thank you so much Jeanne. I agree, breaking down a verse really helps us absorb it at a deeper level.
      And as you said it is a great verse to carry into the new year.
      Blessings to you 🤗🌺

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  4. Amen! I’m finding my need to be gentle all the more as of late because I’m letting stress get the best of me, which brings out the worst in me. May God help us to be gentle through the power of His Spirit.

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  5. Amen!!!! “To abide is to remain in and live in Christ and an important aspect of that is obedience and walking in Jesus’s way.” That is so true!!! I love how you breakdown verses! I hope the Lord uses this to bless others in how to read God’s Word and thus grow more in their love, worship and knowledge of Him. God is near and when we seek Him with a gentle heart and spirit He will be found. Lots of love, hugs and blessings!!!

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    1. Thank you Mandy and I am so glad that you like the breakdown of the verse. I hope it encourages others to delve deep into God’s word too. Blessings to you my friend 🤗🌺

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  6. The way you broke down this scripture was so powerful, Manu. It gives meaning to “studying to show ourselves approved.” Dissecting the Word to gain nuggets of gold and wisdom. Gentleness is so important. It shows great strength to choose to be kind in turn to others when they are rude to us. Jesus Himself was gentle, showing us the way. 💜

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    1. Thank you so much Renee. I am so happy that you like the verse breakdown. I love studying verses this way. It does give new insight and meaning. Yes, Jesus himself was gentle, showing us the way.
      Blessings to you 😊🌺

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  7. Great post. Gentleness is something I pray for a lot. My ministering gift is exhortation which can sound real harsh when not walking in the Spirit. My husband is naturally a quiet, gentle, kind soul but me…quiet does not even come naturally, I love interaction between others. God has put me in a place me in ministry that requires a lot of listening. One can listen gently or with frustration. I am learning often this truth. Again, good post.

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    1. Thank you Betty. Listening with gentleness is powerful and can make a huge difference in ministering to someone.
      I hope to always exercise listening with gentleness but sometimes frustration comes through.


  8. This is a powerful break down. Thanks for sharing Manu. I grew up a very soft person, sweet at heart and no lack of gentleness was found in me but along the way of life I met ungrateful people and somehow I feel they changed apart of me and I have become very impatient with people who aren’t gentle to me but expect me to be gentle to them. But I am reminded in the bible that my gentleness should not be evident because people are gentle to me too but I should be gentle because God has been gentle with me even when I proved difficult in my life He didn’t grow impatient with me. May we always remember that we aren’t to be gentle Because people are gentle but because God has taught us how to be and the spirit of God is available to remind and direct us on how to be gentle. God bless!!

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    1. I can relate to what you are saying. Some experiences can shape how we tend to extend our gentleness towards others. And you are right we are to do so not because others behave that way with us but because Christ is gentle with us.
      Thank you so much sis 🤗💙

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  9. Hi Manu! It’s Marla. I really like this blog and you zoning in on one verse at a time. I am glad you took the time to show your diagram. It helps. At our ladies Bible study, we’re learning Isaiah and it’s very difficult. The moments I’m absorbing the most are when I’m concentrating on each word, but the church is doing all of Isaiah in one year. I got a beautiful handmade leather journal from my husband for Christmas and I’m writing all the meanings and scriptures for GOD (like all powerful, for example.) It’s becoming a treasure book! Happy day!

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