
Doing Something for God does not equate to spending time with Him
This week was an unintentionally slower week for me. It is winter here in Australia and with it comes the cold and flu season. Family has been sick. When something like this happens, I notice that I still try and squeeze in all that I had planned or committed to do. My prayers were for family to get well soon, I did want the sickness to pass, nothing wrong with that, right? But also realised that there was an underlying urgency to get back to routine, get everything done and keep all my commitments. Sounds awful, I know. What would happen if a few days went without doing what I had planned and committed to, catastrophe, right?
I find it hard to lay things down when something unexpected happens. I realised I was approaching God in prayer for my needs that hopefully He will meet in my timeline. I was convicted. I cancelled a couple of things; it helped me lessen my load to accommodate the unexpected this week. This enabled me to approach Him in prayer with my focus not on all that was still waiting to get done but on God who is Supreme, who sees all and knows all. I also took more time to pray for others.
Why do I struggle to lay certain things down? Am working on that but when I try and squeeze it all in, eventually what happens is my time with God suffers. I have always struggled in this area, especially if it includes commitments to serve in church. It always feels like I have to let go of something important. This week God made me slow down to realise that spending time with Him in an unhurried manner was more important that doing a multitude of things for Him. And that time with Him was not listening to sermons or read about Him in a good book. It was about being one on one with Him- read His word, be quiet, talk to Him, listen and worship Him. Yes, we are to take our requests to Him, but our time with Him should be more about Him than us.
I was reminded that “Doing something for God does not equate to spending time with Him.” Often, serving can feel important enough that we might slacken in time spent with God if we are tired, or if we say yes to more than is good for us in a particular time/season.
In Luke 10:38-42, we read the familiar story of Mary and Martha. Jesus and others, visit Martha’s house and she is distracted with all things in preparation to serve them. While her sister Mary simply sits at His feet and listens. When Martha complains to Jesus, He replies “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” (Luke 10:41-42)
We might have heard this familiar passage countless times but the lessons from the word of God never cease to keep teaching and correcting us. For Martha, what she was doing was important, after all she had to ensure that all who came to her house would have something to eat. The lesson in it is not about forsaking doing things for God, but to not let it be something we place above sitting at His feet. Doing something for God should not take precedence over spending time with Him. God in His grace often helps us reset as we can have a tendency to skew our priorities. I have learnt over the years that these sorts of resets and reminders are so needed.
God Bless.
Anything we (unintentionally) exalt above God- which can sometimes be our ‘godly’ to do list- that too will have to be brought down😉
[Inasmuch as we] refute arguments and theories and reasonings and every proud and lofty thing that sets itself up against the [true] knowledge of God; and we lead every thought and purpose away captive into the obedience of Christ (the Messiah, the Anointed One), (2Cor 10:5)
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Absolutely, Tam 💙💐
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I knew a minister in an evangelical church who was getting burned out, even though the church was small by today’s standards, only about 80-90 people any given Sunday. But he always seemed tired, distracted and hurried.
So one day he decided to really rest and write his obituary!😱 Then he proceeded to write down what he would expect to happen after he died.
He realized the church would go on meeting, maybe even have some extra meetings for his funeral and memorial services. His wife and kids would collect the insurance; friends would comfort them and help with everything from funeral prep to meals. And life would go on.
He suddenly realized HE was not all that important. Yes, there were good things he could do, but he found out he was not the vital cog in the machine that he had thought he was.
Hey, thanx for this prompt; tomorrow’s blog will expand on this.
❤️&🙏, c.a.
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We so easily fall into the notion that what we are doing is so important. Everything does indeed go on. We just have a wonderful opportunity to be a part of things but not at the cost of time with God. Looking forward to your post tomorrow.
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Manu, thank you for this much needed reminder. I have been keeping busy as a way to help distract my mind from worrying about my family and all the battles that have come up. But I know God wants me to “Be still and know…” in His Presence. I pray your family gets better soon. 🙏
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Oh I know that feeling Bridget, I tend to do that too. And all God wants for us is to go to Him. Praying that you will find that stillness, and experience His presence and peace in a powerful way 💙
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I am strengthened by reading posts such as yours. I believe the Lord has provided me with a circle of Christian friends from all around the world who encourage me, friends that I love. Thank you for writing your blog. God bless you, Manu! 🙏 💕
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Thank you for your lovely words, Cindy. I so agree with your thoughts on being encouraged through various people on this platform, yours included 💙.
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Yes, the reminders are so needed. I too struggle to give up things and just spend time with God. OR I struggle when I try to spend time with God. I guess that shows the enemy and sin at work. It shouldn’t be a difficult thing, it should be a wonderful thing. But sin and stumbling blocks vie for our attention, and priorities do get skewed.
Thank you for being so real, Manu. May we both increase in spiritual strength and get and keep things in their proper and most precious order.
Have a wonderful weekend!
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So true that sin and stumbling blocks vie for our attention and skew our priorities. Thank you Tina 💙
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To think that God always wants to spend time with us is amazing. Sadly I let things like being busy get in the way, so I need to carve out the time mostly in the morning as I start my day.
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We do tend to do that Matt and intermittently we are reminded to reset our priorities.
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I have had that statement of Jesus yo Martha for about a week now, as I’ve been worrying about lesser things. And I, too, gind it hard to slow down. Thank you for this post, Manu. It’s a timely reminder for me!
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That’s definitely a reminder. I love how faithful and patient God is.
Blessings my friend 💙
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Early in the morning before anyone else arises and the birds aren’t even singing yet-that’s the best time for me to spend with God. I hope you are feeling better now. Great message, Manu. 🙂
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I agree about that Nancy. The best time is to start our day with the Lord. Thank you and hope you have a wonderful weekend.
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I am more like Martha than Mary at times. I’m learning to catch my Martha moments. Pause. Breathe and try to be more like Mary.
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That is growth and I pray we grow to recognise moments when we need to be still with the Lord instead of being distracted with other things.
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May this next week be better fo all of you. 🤗
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Thank you 💙
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Wow, what a powerful reminder. Thank you, Manu for reminding me that what matters most is our personal walk with God.
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Hi Manu, I hope your family is healing and feeling better now! I always have to nudge myself to slow down and take time to read God’s word, absorb it, and be still. It is easy for me to get into “Martha mode.” Your quote, “Doing something for God does not equate to spending time with Him,” is a good reminder for me. My goal is to spend more time being still and listening. Peace and Blessings! 🙏💖🌺
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Hi Jeanne, thank you and yes we are better now. We’ll do tend to slide into doing rather than being still with God and are reminded to reset. Blessings 💙💐
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Hmmm💗. I can get super distracted when I am tired and sometimes it’s easy to scroll and do something mindless when I am tired. 😊 God is helping me and I am learning to rest in his presence, even during busy times. ❤️
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As I read this, it is early Thursday morning here. My dog unusually had a very distracted night resulting in me not having much sleep and I was thinking I cannot function much today as I feel like I am running on fumes. Your comment reminded me to not end up sitting on my phone and scroll.
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God be praised! We need him more during these times. Worship helps lift the heaviness. ❤️🙏🏾
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Hey Manu! I think it’s fair to say that reading the Bible never gets boring. The things God teaches is through the Word are always helpful and relevant. God bless you, brother!
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Absolutely agree 👍🏽
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Sorry for the typo!
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No worries
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There is such a difference between doing and spending time being still. I think we all have a difficult time being still, but our GOD requires it of us. It is an intentional choice we make daily. I find my quiet time first thing in the morning. And recently I find myself picking up my Bible more and more. Thank you LORD for drawing me there! Blessings to you and thank you for this post!
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I so relate to this! I am asking Holy Spirit to work His supernatural peace deeper into the fabric of my being, so that I remain peaceful when the unexpected happens and doesn’t allow for my expectations for the day. I’m grateful, He’s been gradually helping me improve in this, but it’s still been a journey for sure!
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Supernatural peace deeper into the fabric of my being – Amen to that 🙏🏽. May the Lord help us both to improve in this aspect as we lean and surrender to Him.
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Yes, these reminders are important for all of us. The best of times is time well spent with Him, then everything else takes on a different meaning and priority.
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Absolutely Valerie 🙏🏽
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